Thursday, August 21, 2008

I need to vent!

Reference the post from a few days ago, what cute girls, setting out on their first day of school. How exciting. What anticipation! They innocently got on the bus that morning, fully trusting that they would then be dropped off in the same spot without incident that afternoon after a full day of learning and fun. At dismissal time on the first day of school, Micheala was placed on bus #10 instead of bus #1, a mistake by the bus company who added in a random zero on the bus sheet they sent to the school. Not a huge deal, she still got home, an hour later than she should have and on a different bus than Saige, but at least she got home safe and sound. After talking to the office and her teacher we thought it was all resolved.....so they get on the bus the second day of school after much reassurance from me that today would be better. They would both be on the same bus coming home and please make sure you are on bus #1 this time. Apparently, partway through the day Saige's teacher is notified that she is to ride bus #18 instead. Micheala gets no such note. So, AGAIN, they are placed on separate buses. Saige is let off at our bus stop.....but no Micheala! I stop the bus driver and explain that I am missing a kid. He radios bus #1 to make sure she is on that bus. The driver radios back that yes she is. She is then told that she need to be dropped off at Dublin and Killarney (our bus stop). The driver makes her move to the front of the bus, then proceeds to make her get out at a bus stop on the opposite side of our neighborhood!!! How did I find this out you ask?!? While waiting at our stop for bus #1 to come, a lady driving an SUV comes around the corner, looks in her backseat, then looks at me really oddly. She rolls down her window and says, "Do you know who this girl is?" I look in her backseat, and you guessed it, MICHEALA! She proceeds to tell me where she was dropped at and that she found Micheala running down the sidewalk crying, picked her up, and drove her around until she found us. Micheala does not know her phone number, doesn't know our address, and I don't even think she could point out our house to someone! Thank goodness she was picked up by a very nice, good samaritan.

So, the next two hours I spent on the phone with the school, the bus company, her teacher, and finally left a message at the superintendents office demanding a call back in the morning. I was FURIOUS!!! It takes a lot to get me to the point of yelling at someone, but I WAS FURIOUS! The bus company was very unsympathetic and unapologetic. I wanted to reach through the phone and strangle the lady! I actually thought (sorry if this shocks you mom), "I wish I knew how to cuss someone out, because I really want to, but I know it wouldn't come out right out of my mouth!" I was fired up, it took hours for me to calm down last night. And Micheala, she went right upstairs and played with Barbies all night. She is so sweet, and has a really short memory I guess, because she got on the bus just fine this morning.

So today I'm thinking, "Am I a fool for putting my children on the bus for the third day in a row considering all of the mistakes made the past two days?!" Unfortunately, I didn't really have a choice. To drop off and pick up kids at school you actually have to get out of the car, show photo ID, sign them out, etc, etc. And with two little ones in tow that often run opposite directions...I just can't do it. I have learned my lesson for next year though. My kids will NOT ride the bus the first week of school. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, again.

This morning I spoke with the superintendant and relayed to him all of the above. Of anyone I talked to, he was the most sympathetic, apologetic, yet least responsible for the whole ordeal. I feel better now having voiced my concerns to him, and I have been guaranteed that they will be on the right bus today, and will be on the same bus. If not...............

10 comments:

Laura said...

I think that is a mom's worst nightmare! My jaw is still dropped-- I just can't believe it! It sounds like they are EXTREMELY picky about how YOU pick them up, but they aren't as detailed when it comes to putting kids on buses. I am so so glad that Micheala was/is ok. I can only imagine how scary that would have been for her...and you. Ugh! I'm fuming with ya sista!

Matt, Rachel, Madden and Halle said...

How crazy, scary, and awful! I can't believe it. Poor Michaela, I'm sure she was scared! You have a right to be furious! I'm upset for you. Even though I don't remember it, I can sympathize with Michaela. I got dropped off at the wrong bus stop in kindergarten. I don't really remember it and I think I turned out ok. Let's keep our fingers crossed that all goes well this afternoon.

Aaron and Melissa said...

That's horrible! I think I'll try to work it out so that I can pick my kids up from school next year... That is just too scary! I would be a wreck! My mom never let us ride buses when we were in school... now I know why :) I'm glad you yelled at everyone under the sun- it helps the rest of us (hopefully)! YOU GO GIRL... LOL!!

katherine said...

I can't believe it. I totally know what you mean about "wanting" to cuss someone out, but knowing it would just sound so weird coming from someone who doesn't cuss (in my mind I'm referencing BYU cussing it which I heard someone gramatically misuse the d bomb-kinda funny). But that bus company totally deserves it. I can't believe they let her off the bus late and with no parent in sight to confirm it was the right place. I am sending good vibes your way in hopes that the bus drama will be over for good!

Jeremiah and Rebecca Morgan said...

Oh my gosh I can't believe it. What makes it worse is when people won't accept responsibility for their mistakes ... bus company. At least apologize and sympathize. So, on Wednesday they dismissed the kindergartners 10 minutes before the rest of the kids. So, JJ went walking home on his own. From her classroom Savannah saw him walk out the door by himself, told her teacher and her teacher told her to sit down and wait to be dismissed. Not as dramatic as your incident but I was nonetheless pretty upset.

Rebecca said...

I am so sorry! I would have been furious too! That should not happen. And definitely not twice! I am so glad Michaela got home safe. I still can't believe it...

Amber said...

How Scary! I can't believe that!!

Catherine said...

REDICULOUS!!! Doesn't it just infuriate you MORE when people don't take accountability for their actions when they mess up? If they would just acknowledge that they made a mistake and then rectify it, it is so much better. But being jerks about things like that just make me even madder. I don't know about you. Hopefully they get it right today.

WendyJ said...

Wow! Good for you for standing up for your kids. My daughter's start school on the 3rd. I was thinking about letting them ride the bus, but now I'm not so sure.

Anonymous said...

kids wandering alone willing to get into a strangers car, where do you live I want some k-d pu--y